My obsessiveness is probably the reason I’m so scared of rejection. I don’t want to accept a reality where I’m not good enough. I rather pretend that I have a chance and not act on it than realize I never had a chance in the first place. It’s really egotistical of me if you think about it.
if i ever misgender you or use slang (bro, man, gurl, dude) that makes you feel even slightly uncomfortable please tell me because your gender identity and comfort is more important than any word i may use to refer to you